I don't believe in both.  I'm good, and I got something.  I don't need to be sorted out.

Someone else does things with the excuse I could get away with it by accident just once or however much would happen that I would not want.  Apparently, she also doesn't want to be my friend.  I'm hurt that no one does.

So, I found that someone did something I wouldn't do by far more than anyone in general unless I was being attacked.  I feel I am grouped with her, though, in this way.